5 Luxe Weekend Reset Destinations for Black Women Who Solo Travel
What’s on your agenda this summer for time away for you? If its on your radar but, you haven’t swiped your card yet we’d like to add these destinations to the chat to give you some luxe long weekend worthy options that you don’t need a passport to enjoy. Whether you’re in a new chapter, plotting your next big move, or simply overdue for some “just because” self-care, these handpicked spots are calling your name. Each one offers a high-vibe mix of rest, beauty, and Black girl luxury… and yes, solo is always an option.
1. Salamander Resort & Spa – Middleburg, VA
Budget Score: $$$$
You Might Love: The annual "Family Reunion" event that celebrates culture, cuisine, and connection.
Founded by trailblazer Sheila Johnson (yes, that Sheila Johnson co-founder of BET), Salamander is a five-star sanctuary tucked in Virginia’s wine country. Think: horseback riding, fireside massages, and spa robes that feel like clouds. Perfect for: women who want to unplug without roughing it.
Reset Ideas:
Book a custom massage or sound bath experience
Stroll through nearby vineyards with a journal and a glass
Book a private yoga session or trail ride through the woods
2. The Ivy Hotel – Baltimore, MD
Budget Score: $$$$
You Might Love: Their cozy afternoon tea service served in a velvet-draped library.
This boutique hotel is a hidden gem wrapped in Black excellence. With only 18 rooms and seriously swoon-worthy service, it’s owned by Eddie and Sylvia Brown—committed supporters of culture and community. The stay includes breakfast, drinks, and thoughtful little luxuries that make you feel like royalty.
Reset Ideas:
Book a spa treatment without ever leaving the property
Grab a house bike and ride to the nearby Baltimore Museum of Art
Cozy up with a book in the parlor—no distractions, just vibes
3. NOPSI Hotel – New Orleans, LA
Budget Score: $$$
You Might Love: The rooftop pool + bar where you can journal with a cocktail and views for days.
NOPSI (New Orleans Public Service Inc.) is where historic charm meets modern style. It’s Black-owned, centrally located, and perfectly positioned for women who want to soak up the soul of New Orleans without sacrificing their peace.
Reset Ideas:
Start your morning with beignets, end it with rooftop journaling
Book a spa day nearby, then catch live jazz at a local lounge
Take a solo walking tour of the French Quarter or Garden District
4. Primland Resort – Meadows of Dan, VA
Budget Score: $$$$
You Might Love: Stargazing in the observatory or from your private treehouse-style suite.
If mountain magic and quiet luxury are your thing, Primland is it. This property sits on 12,000 acres of pure stillness—ideal for a soft life weekend that’s equal parts woodsy and glam.
Reset Ideas:
Try forest bathing or an archery class
Wind down with a Himalayan salt stone massage
Write out your next chapter from a rocking chair with mountain views
5. Four Seasons Resort – Lanai, Hawaii
Budget Score: $$$$
You Might Love: The untouched energy of Lanai and the chance to truly disappear for a bit.
Okay, hear me out. Lanai might be a splurge, but it’s also the spot if you’re craving stillness with a side of wow. With only a handful of resorts and little to no traffic, you’ll feel like you own the island.
Reset Ideas:
Start the day with a guided meditation by the ocean
Take a solo Jeep ride to the Garden of the Gods
Enjoy a sunset dinner that feels like a scene from your favorite movie
A Few Travel Tips Before You Go:
Book ahead: Spa treatments and wellness add-ons fill fast especially at boutique resorts. Pack with purpose: Think liner and layers for breezy evenings,, statement loungewear, and a book that fills you up. Stay safe: Share your itinerary with a loved one and keep your phone charged. Be present: Journal. Breathe. Eat slow. Let this trip be about more than the photo dump.
Before you rush off to book remember
You don’t need a passport to prioritize yourself.
Whether you're sipping wine in Virginia or taking solo strolls through the French Quarter, these luxe spots offer more than a stay they’re an invitation to reconnect with you…. and in case no one told you you deserve all that and more!
